This morning I did something rather unusual. I started my day by not water bugging.
No matter what day of the week, my mornings unfold in more or less
the same way. Make tea, coffee for
Richard if he’s not travelling. Feed
Trixie, and whatever neighbourhood cats show up at the front door. Turn on the radio. And finally, impatiently, eagerly, sit down
at my computer and re-establish my place in the digital world. What Facebook updates have I missed? Did anyone repin something from my Pinterest
boards? What photos were posted on Instagram? Twitter…ah Twitter, how I love and hate you. With my two accounts, there are endless conversations
to be part of, articles to read and retweet, messages to launch, like so many
tiny missiles, into the vast endless Twittersphere universe.
And then there are work emails.
While I’ve been sleeping, Asia and Europe have been busy as bees,
filling my inbox with questions, FYIs, requests and projects. I’m fully engaged with all neurons firing,
even though it’s only 6:30 am.
But here’s the thing. With all that activity, I haven’t had a
single live human moment. I’ve been so busy trying just to keep up that I haven’t
really tuned in.
So as I’ve been
thinking about BSP3 and imagining what I might share about that transformative experience,
I keep going back to water bugging.
Have you heard of
water bugging? It’s the speedy skim, the
surface conversation, the lightening quick flitting from one thing to another,
all, of seeming very important and making you feel terribly busy. But water bugging never gets beneath the surface,
down into the depths of things: to that scary place underneath the rock in the
deepest part of the lake; to the magical beauty that inexplicably survives 30
feet below the water.
The Big Summer Potluck
is all about what lies beneath. It’s the
antithesis of water bugging, made evident in every minute with abundance of
real human moments abounding all around us.
It’s about bringing together the natural community that forms around food
and amplifying it, shining a megawatt light on all that really should matter.
Unexpected beauty
As so as they have magically done for three years now, Maggy, Erika and Pam bring together people that force us to get our hair wet, to dive deeper into the lake that is our hearts and really connect with not just each other, but ourselves. I’ll share more about the collective awesomeness of Brooke Burton-Lüttmann, Joy Wilson, Marisa McClellan and Molly O’Neill in a future post, and how, in their very distinctive ways, each of them pulled us into the lake with joyous splashes.
But right now it’s 9:30 am. I’m in my garden, the cacophony of honey bees burrowing in the anemones impossibly loud and delicious. The digital world is a click away, but I’m swatting that particular water bug down for the moment. I have a husband to call who’s far away, and human moments to create.
I think your line about amplifying the natural community that forms around food is the perfect description about what happens at Big Summer Potluck.
ReplyDeleteThks Courtney! Hope you, Eric and l'il baby Clara are well :-).
ReplyDeleteElizabeth
I couldn't agree more about about the water bugging, I love that analogy! It certainly was a wake up call for me. I have been trying to let more happen naturally.....its a battle!
ReplyDeleteIt was nice meeting you at the BSP3!
Thank you Dennis! It was one of the first things Maggy said when she was describing BSP and it stuck. Now - putting it into practice - another matter entirely :-). Hope we will get to speak more next year (or in between).
ReplyDeleteElizabeth
Water bugging...great analogy! So sorry I missed BSP this year! Maybe next year!
ReplyDeleteFantastic post...I love your beautiful smile and can't wait to see you at BSP4 :)
ReplyDeleteAmy, we missed you this year. Your Julia Child chat tonight was so much fun.
ReplyDeleteWinnie - thank you. You are so much a part of what makes BSP extraordinary. Can't wait for BSP4! xo
I am feeling the reward of your BSP experience vicariously. Much wisdom in these words my friend. Much Wisdom. xxo
ReplyDeleteLove your take on BSP3, and we all need to our hair wet more often. Great seeing you again this year, and hope to again next year. xoxo
ReplyDeleteI love your post, and the water bugging analogy. I think we all need to get our hair wet more often. It's great seeing you at BSP3 and hope to see you next year. xoxo
ReplyDeleteFabulous way to start Monday by reading your great post! I wish there had been more time to get to know you & more lovely folks at BSP3. Next time, I swear I must! Thanks for sharing, Elizabeth!
ReplyDeleteThis is such an uplifting post! I love the analogy of waterbugging :] It's true--I had so many heartfelt, lovely conversations and bellylaughs during BSP3 with people I had just met. It was wonderful to meet you. Perhaps we'll see each other at BSP4? :]
ReplyDeleteThank you for all of your nice comments! With a special hug for you, dear Robin xox
ReplyDeleteLovely! It was great to meet you, I enjoyed our chats!
ReplyDeleteIt was SO great to meet you and Larry - can't wait to see you next year! xo
DeletePerfect post! I had a blast seeing you again and you know you are my absolute favorite foreign driver!!! Smooch!
ReplyDeleteAnd mwah to you! Loved being able to have our car chats and a private tour guide to Bucks County. Same time, next year? xo
DeleteI love this post, Eliz.
ReplyDeleteI can totally relate to your description of a typical morning - I've spent the past week and a half trying to break myself of my habit of reaching for my iPhone first thing in the morning (often before I even put my glasses on, if you can believe it). Sometimes it's okay to disconnect.
Thanks again for being my ride there and back. I literally couldn't have made it without you! Hope we can do it all over again next year.
Thank you for the kind words my travel buddy. I'm so glad that you were able to make it this year, and that it exceeded your expectations. See you sooner than BSP4 :-)
DeleteLetting your hair down and dancing in a rain storm until your under garments are soaked sounds lIke you reached 30ft below the water during the BSPL3. Great insight!
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